Redditors Share When They Realized Their SO Wasn't The One

"When I would sit in the driveway in my car before going inside. The stress was killing me." -Reddit user (deleted)

"When her dog preferred to spend more time with me than her, she took it personally and would kick him when he came near either of us.

In regards to this issue, she said: "If our children ever prefer you over me, it's going to get ugly." -Reddit user lord_of_a_thing

"She actually said this to me: Do you really think anyone else will want you?" -Reddit user billiardaddy

"I was in my car with her driving and got into a car accident. My car was totaled, and thankfully, neither one of us was injured, but it was bad. My ex girlfriend's concern?

There was a fake nail in my car that didn't belong to her. I still have no idea how it got there." -Reddit user littlegreycells

"When I found out that she was married and had two additional boyfriends besides me." -Reddit user vitriolicnaivety

"When she said we were done and she didn't love me anymore. She was still the one for me, but she can't be if I'm not the one for her." -Reddit user SuckItPeasants

"When I went to see a marriage therapist on my own, and he told me it sounded like my marriage was over."
-Reddit user (deleted)

"When she told me, I didn't buy her anything.

This is also neglecting the 3-4 dinners out per week and a vacation from Orlando to Montana, to name a couple." -Reddit user jewrome215

"She gave me an ultimatum. Marriage and a kid in six months. We had been dating for a couple of years, so I was ok with the marriage part, but I had also just put her through nursing school, and it had totally drained my finances.

Told her we should wait on the kid part for a year so we would be in a better state financially. She broke up with me on the spot and started dating one of my ex-friends." -Reddit user jockheroic

"Went on vacation with him and a few friends. We shared a hotel room and were around each other most of the time for four days straight. By the end of that vacation, I was just so annoyed and fed up with him that I felt like I needed a vacation away from him to recover.

That's when I realized this wouldn't work out. If I couldn't stand to be around him for four consecutive days, I highly doubt I could spend the rest of my life with him." -Reddit user RollAd20

"I asked my (now ex-)husband to please try counseling to save our 4-year marriage. He replied, "Why don't you just get pregnant and stop bothering me?"Let's see, dude, have a baby with an emotionally vacant jerk or move out?

Yeah, that was a pretty easy decision for me." -Reddit user GiannaMia

"When I found out, she cheated on me with her boss, that is 15 years older than her.

That was 2 years down the drain." -Reddit user squidwardtortelIini

"While looking at engagement rings, she mentioned that she found the one and she had to have that ONE ring... It was $35,000. She wouldn't compromise.

I had saved up $6,000 for a ring, and at this moment, my eyes were opened to her crazy financial expectations. She didn't last long after that. Bullet dodged." -Reddit user ViralityFarm

"The moment she decided to leave for Canada without even saying a word, and then had the audacity of calling me on my cell phone to tell me the news once she was there." -Reddit user (deleted)

"Every little thing she did started to annoy me. The way she closed doors, the way she ran. How she greeted me.

I found myself rolling my eyes a lot. I knew that neither of us could be happy that way." -Reddit user Amedais