Redditors Share How Their Best Friend Became Their Worst Enemy

"My ex-best friend's boyfriend was complete trash, and she ended up choosing him over our friendship. The best part is that the reason he didn't like me was that I didn't offer him backstage passes to a concert (he was stupid enough to say this to me).

He told me that my friendship with her was no longer going to work, and she just sat there and didn't say ANYTHING. Even though they broke up a while back, those two losers deserve each other." -Reddit user (deleted)

"She was essentially still a child at age 17, she blamed her anxiety for just about anything wrong with her life. Because of her anxiety, she couldn't drive a car, get a job, order a pizza, or literally anything else that required effort. Needless to say, it made hanging out with her extremely tiring.

We became enemies when I tried suggesting simple changes to help with her anxiety, and she told me I was an asshole for not understanding her mental illness. I told her she needed to grow up, and she's hated me ever since. Not necessarily enemies, but I wouldn't help her if she was hanging off a cliff, her anxiety would probably kick in If I touched her hand." -Reddit user (deleted)

"Her then-boyfriend tried to take advantage of me while I was drunk. He pulled me out of the way of the other people at the party, unloaded a (fake, as it turned out) sob story on me to get closer to me, and then tried to kiss me. I wasn't into that at all.

Another of her "friends" had seen us disappearing and phrased it to her in a way that made it look like I was the instigator. We'd been friends for 7 years, and she imploded on me. We've barely talked since." -Reddit user McStaken

"Told me to starve myself to be skinny like her. Got mad at me when I couldn't talk on the phone for 7+ hours a day or hang out all the time, especially after knowing I'm extremely introverted. Told me bisexuality wasn't real. Made me feel like shit all the time about my mannerisms.

Talked sh*t about me behind my back. The list goes on. I hate confrontation, so I never said anything to her, just blocked her one day after hearing for the umpteenth time that anorexia is exactly what will make me feel better about myself." -Reddit user Ryattier

"The first time I met his girlfriend, she told him I was touching her up, he believed her and sent me threatening messages, etc.

At that point, I wasn't even aware of what she told him, so I had no idea who was leaving the answer phone messages, the guy was trying to conceal his voice. Twenty years later, we still haven't spoken to each other." -Reddit user ProjectVRD

"Fourteen years of friendship, but over the last few years, I always knew I couldn't trust her with my secrets. After a few incidents that I forgave her for, I knew that I couldn't tell her something that happened in my life. If that had come out, it would have hurt many people.

However, she did suspect something and spread a rumor, and when I confronted her about it, she decided she would never want to talk to me again, and I was a bad friend for not trusting her. Now I can barely go through my hometown without getting weird looks and rude comments by a lot of people." -Reddit user laraaa__

"She tried to drown me in a pool. Like, actually. She prevented me from being able to use my arms and legs and held them together since she was bigger and stronger than I was, and she held me underwater until I managed to break out of her grip.

Her reason? Honestly, who knows." -Reddit user mint-juul-pods

"She hooked up with some crazy dude and had to move in with me temporarily.

In the short time, she was my roommate, she brought drugs into the house, somehow got a pair of her panties stuck on the roof of the back room, and slept with my ex-husband (and several of his friends.) Oh man, that's a bunch of people I'm glad to say are no longer a part of my life." -Reddit user cannibal87

"Knew about my feelings for a girl, tried to make it work out for me in front of me, but behind the scenes tried to hit it off with her. Jokes on you, dude.

We have been together for three months now." -Reddit user classican2018

"I fell in love with my best friend of 5 years only to have her steal thousands of dollars from me and my family, cheat on me with her ex, leave me overnight, then tell all of my friends and coworkers that I abused her. The best part? They believed her. I was ostracized, and I still have no friends.

Even my family holds a grudge against me for even falling in love with her in the first place. She lives in my town and apparently still tells people how much of a sc*mbag I am. I really wish she'd just leave me be." -Reddit user Caleon0817

"She falsely accused me of touching her inappropriately and got me fired from the best job I've ever had." -Reddit user Memelord_R_Me

"The girl he was secretly in love with and I started having a sexual relationship until she decided she loved me. He found out and threatened to kill me.

Once I did fall for her, and two, I had no idea how into her he was." -Reddit user hilaryCLITon69

"She told my current girlfriend to stay away from me before we met. Saying I hit on anything.

Spread major rumors about me and backstabbed me many times after using me. I hated having female friends. I now have no friends because of them. I'm a female btw." -Reddit user (deleted)

"She sent a 5-page email out of the blue detailing out exactly why I'm a horrible friend, insulting my kids and husband, and then uninviting me to her baby shower.

I'm glad it happened, but it was quite an email." -Reddit user (deleted)

"She made me get hit by a bus.

And this was after she didn't invite me to her party and made me gain weight by tricking me by feeding me weight-gaining protein bars from Sweden." -Reddit user POTENTIAL_CRIMINAL