Mother-In-Law Tries To Feed Baby Water Despite Mom’s Warnings, Regrets It

Her Top Priorities

When Lianna Rin Jones finally held her newborn baby in her arms, she felt like the happiest woman in the world. Throughout the months leading up to this moment, she had immersed herself in books, blogs, and seminars, determined to learn everything she could about motherhood.

Organizing the nursery meticulously, stocking up on all the essentials, and creating a detailed feeding and sleep schedule were among her top priorities.

Feeding The Baby Water

Despite the challenges of motherhood, Lianna believed she was well prepared. Lianna had not prepared for one unexpected obstacle: her mother-in-law.  Lianna's mother-in-law began questioning her methods as soon as the baby arrived home. There was a lot of controversy surrounding an old tradition - giving the baby water.

In spite of Lianna's polite explanation that pediatricians now recommend against giving water to newborns because their nutritional needs are met entirely by breast milk or formula, her mother-in-law remained adamant.

Her Motives

"You're being too protective," her mother-in-law said in a grumpy tone. "A little water didn't harm anyone. It's been done for generations." Her mother-in-law's motives were unclear to Lianna. Did she not trust her capabilities? Or was it a desire to uphold tradition? Or something else?

She didn't know, but she was determined to find out. It was Lianna's baby's health and wellbeing that were at stake, and that was something she wouldn't compromise on.

Disagreements

As the disagreement escalated, a rift in the family formed, one that seemed impossible to repair. There was tenseness at dinner, arguments at the dinner table, and eventually, grandparents' visits became infrequent and strained. She felt isolated, caught between being a mother protecting her child and a daughter-in-law navigating the delicate dynamics of family life.

Finding a middle ground was a balancing act she never anticipated. It all came to a head one afternoon when Lianna returned home to find evidence that her baby had been given water. Years of unspoken frustrations surfaced during the confrontation that followed.

Growing Up

Lianna was born into challenging circumstances, and because of this, her early memories were filled with the faces of countless caregivers rather than her parents.  After being abandoned at a young age, she grew up in foster care, moving from family to family.

Lianna persevered despite the uncertainty and heartache of never having a permanent family.

Her Dreams

Her dream of having a family began at a young age. Having never experienced warmth, love, and stability, she longed for it.  

It was in her imagination that she would envision a happy and loving life, with children of her own. She promised herself that one day, she would create the family she had always wished for.

She Met Daniel

Leaving foster care, Lianna faced the world with a determined spirit. While pursuing her education, she juggled multiple jobs to support herself.  Due to her experiences, she became empathetic and caring, traits that attracted people to her. She never forgot about her dream of starting a family despite her busy schedule.

She met Daniel at a community event when she was in her early twenties, and he was a kind and intelligent man.

Love And Support

Their shared values and dreams instantly drew them together and created a deep connection. Lianna appreciated Daniel's love and support, while Daniel admired her strength and determination. 

As their relationship grew, they became inseparable. Together, they built a life together, supporting each other through the good and the bad.

They Fell In Love

He loved the way Lianna's eyes lit up when she talked about creating a loving family and having children.  Their relationship grew stronger as they traveled, laughed, and spent more time together. After a long journey together, Daniel proposed to Lianna in a heartfelt moment.

Their wedding was a beautiful, intimate ceremony with close friends who had become like family to them.

The Time Had Come

Lianna felt a profound sense of fulfillment and hope as she exchanged vows with her future husband. Having just gotten married, Lianna and Daniel were eager to start a family.  Lianna was filled with excitement and anticipation, ready to give everything she had to her children.

It would not always be easy for them, but with Daniel by her side and the strength she had developed over the years, she was ready to face the challenges and embrace the joys of motherhood.

Holding Onto Guilt

But Daniel couldn't hold onto his guilt any longer. He finally had to tell her about his mother, Margaret. It was the first time that Daniel opened up about his upbringing. His childhood was marked by his mother's erratic behavior and inconsistent presence.

Maggie had difficulty holding down jobs, and her relationships with various men brought instability to their home. 

Resentment

Daniel often found himself taking on adult responsibilities from a young age, leading to a deep-seated resentment towards Maggie.  By the time he reached adulthood, their relationship was strained and distant. One rainy evening, Maggie arrives unannounced at Daniel and Lianna's doorstep, looking worn and desperate.

Her once fiery spirit seems dimmed, and she carries with her an air of distress. Maggie claims she has nowhere else to go, her latest relationship having ended badly, leaving her homeless and with few resources.

Daniel's Hesitation

Daniel was immediately wary of his mother's sudden appearance. Memories of his chaotic childhood flood back. He feared the disruption her presence might bring into his and Lianna's peaceful life. But what else could he do?

He remembered the countless times he had to pick up the pieces after Maggie's poor choices and was hesitant to allow her back into his life.

Lianna's Compassion

Lianna, on the other hand, saw Maggie's plight through the lens of her own experiences as an orphan.  She believed in the importance of family and second chances. Despite Daniel's concerns, Lianna insisted that they could not turn Maggie away.

She believed that everyone deserves a place to call home, especially family. Lianna's compassion won over Daniel's hesitation, and they agreed to let Maggie stay with them temporarily.

Ulterior Motives

While Maggie initially appeared contrite and genuinely in need, subtle hints suggest she may have ulterior motives.  She seemed unusually interested in Daniel and Lianna's financial situation, asking probing questions about their savings and future plans.

Maggie's behavior occasionally slipped, revealing a cunning side that raises suspicions about her true intentions. 

Strange Behavior

She often made phone calls in private and avoided discussing her past in detail, leaving Lianna and Daniel to wonder if there's more to her story than she's letting on. As Maggie settled into their home, tensions rose. Daniel struggled with old wounds, and Lianna began to notice inconsistencies in Maggie's stories.

Despite this, Lianna's empathy and hope for reconciliation kept her trying to bridge the gap between mother and son. But if only Lianna had known what would happen one day.

The Discovery

One crisp autumn morning, Lianna woke up feeling a bit off. She'd been experiencing unusual fatigue and slight nausea for a few days, and she had a nagging suspicion. 

After Daniel left for work, she decided to take a pregnancy test. Her heart raced as she waited for the result, and when the positive sign appeared, tears of joy filled her eyes.  She couldn't wait to share the news with Daniel. But she had no idea that her mother-in-law would be a problem down the line.

Sharing the News

That evening, Lianna prepared a special dinner, and as they sat down to eat, she handed Daniel a small, gift-wrapped box.  Inside was a tiny pair of baby booties and a positive pregnancy test. Daniel's eyes widened with surprise and then filled with joy.

He jumped up and hugged Lianna tightly, and they both laughed and cried together, overwhelmed with happiness and excitement.

The Months That Follow

The first few months were a whirlwind of emotions and changes. Lianna experienced morning sickness and fatigue, but Daniel was incredibly supportive, attending every doctor's appointment and reading up on pregnancy tips.  

They began to share the news with close friends and family, receiving an outpouring of love and congratulations.  Maggie, who was still living with them, showed genuine excitement, offering to help in any way she could.

Second Trimester

As Lianna entered her second trimester, she felt more energetic, and the reality of becoming parents set in.  They started preparing the nursery, painting the walls a soft, calming color, and assembling baby furniture.

Lianna's baby bump began to show, and Daniel often talked to their unborn child, his voice filled with love and anticipation. They also attended prenatal classes, learning about childbirth and parenting together.

Third Trimester

The final months of pregnancy brought a mix of excitement and impatience. Lianna felt the baby move more frequently, and Daniel loved feeling the kicks and movements.  

They spent evenings discussing baby names and dreaming about their future as a family. Lianna's nesting instincts kicked in, and she made sure everything was ready for the baby's arrival.  Despite occasional discomfort and sleepless nights, Lianna felt a deep sense of fulfillment and joy.

Maggie's Role

During these months, Maggie's presence was both a help and a source of tension. She was genuinely helpful in cooking meals and assisting with house chores.  However, her probing questions about their finances and her mysterious phone calls continued to cast a shadow of doubt.

Lianna and Daniel remained cautious, but their focus on the impending arrival of their baby overshadowed their concerns.

The Birth of Their Baby Boy

On a snowy winter night, Lianna went into labor. Daniel rushed her to the hospital, his heart pounding with a mix of anxiety and excitement.  After hours of labor, they finally welcomed their beautiful baby boy into the world. The moment they held him, all their worries and fears melted away, replaced by overwhelming love and joy.

They named him Benjamin "Ben" Daniel Jones, honoring the strength and resilience of their journey together.

Bringing Ben Home

Bringing Ben home was a magical experience. Lianna and Daniel marveled at every little movement and sound he made.  Maggie, too, seemed genuinely moved by her grandson's arrival, offering her support and care.

The house was filled with the sounds of a new life, and the couple's hearts swelled with gratitude and happiness.

Settling Into Parenthood

The first few days were a blur of sleepless nights and endless diaper changes, but Lianna and Daniel embraced every moment. They took turns caring for Ben and supporting each other through the challenges of new parenthood.

Their bond grew even stronger as they navigated this new chapter of their lives together. But Maggie, as it turned out, wouldn't have the same views as Lianna.

Everything Seemed FineEverything Seemed Fine

Initially, everything seemed alright. While Lianna recovered from the labor and never let her newborn out of her sight, Maggie seemed to respect her boundaries.  But unfortunately, Lianna would learn that this was only temporary. In the gentle haze of early motherhood, Lianna was flooded with happiness.

She had finally achieved her lifelong dream of having a family. Daniel was a supportive partner, handling the household chores so Lianna could focus on recovering and caring for their baby.

Unsolicited Advice

Maggie, too, appeared to be a doting grandmother, tiptoeing around the house and offering to cook meals.  However, as Lianna began to regain her strength and could get out of bed more often, Maggie started to share her own parenting experiences, imparting advice on what the new mother should do.

"Back in my day, we did things differently," she would often start, recounting tales of baby rearing that seemed outdated and sometimes outright dangerous by modern standards.

Not Taking Her Advice

Knowing Maggie's turbulent history and being aware of her own meticulous preparation for motherhood, Lianna decided not to take the mother-in-law's advice to heart.  She nodded politely but continued to follow the guidance of her pediatrician and the latest childcare research.

But in the following weeks, Maggie became more assertive. She criticized Lianna's every move, from how she held the baby to her breastfeeding schedule. 

Unwise Words

"You're holding him too much. You'll spoil him," Maggie would say. But the worst of all was when Maggie saw Lianna breastfeeding Ben and when she couldn't give him a bottle.  She snidely remarked, "In my days, we gave babies water, and it didn't do them any harm."

Lianna tried to remain patient, explaining the reasons behind her choices, which were backed by scientific evidence and the doctor's advice. 

Hoping To Assure Her

She hoped this approach would reassure Maggie, showing her that these decisions were not personal whims but were grounded in a desire to do what was best for the baby.  However, Maggie was not convinced. "You young mothers think you know everything because you read it on the internet," she scoffed.

Tensions had been mounting in Lianna Rin Jones' household for weeks, but she could never have imagined the turn things would take next. 

Tension In The Air

It had been an evening like any other, with Lianna settled into the soft cushions of her bed, a book cradled gently in her hands.  The baby monitor stood vigil on the end table, its soft static a reassuring presence in the quiet room. Daniel slipped into the room, his presence signaled by a faint creak of the door.

Lianna could feel a shift in the air, a tension in his steps that hadn't been there before. He joined her on the bed, but the silence that stretched between them was thick with unspoken words.

Breaking The Quiet

Finally, breaking the uneasy quiet, Daniel spoke, his voice hesitant. "Maggie's been talking to me, and, well, she thinks that maybe we should give Ben some water."  The moment the words left his mouth, it was as if the temperature in the room had dropped a few degrees.

Daniel instantly regretted bringing it up, realizing he had unwittingly become a messenger for his mother's will.

Her Reaction

Lianna's reaction was swift, her shock quickly morphing into resolve. She stared at Daniel, her eyes sharpening with a determination that left no room for argument.  "I can't believe your mom is trying to get to you, too," she breathed, her voice laced with a cocktail of disbelief and frustration.

It was clear to her then that the contentious issue of giving their baby, Ben, water had escalated beyond casual family advice into a full-blown battleground.

Speaking Her Mind

"I'm not going to let anyone dictate what's best for Ben, not even your mom," Lianna declared, her words slicing through the tension.  Daniel, caught in the crossfire of maternal instincts and familial loyalty, could do nothing but nod, the weight of his wife's resolve pressing down on him.

The aftermath of that conversation was a troubled silence between them, a chasm that seemed to widen with each passing day. 

A Balance

Daniel found himself navigating the delicate balance between supporting his wife and managing his mother's increasingly forceful opinions.  Lianna, for her part, fortified herself with research and expert guidance, equipping herself with facts and figures should the argument arise again.

The turning point came one afternoon when Lianna returned from a brief walk, the first she'd dared to take alone since the birth. 

Finding Something Wrong

She needed a few moments of solitude, a short respite to gather her thoughts and breathe in the world outside the walls of her home.  As she quietly unlocked the door, she expected to find Daniel and Maggie chatting in the living room or perhaps find the house wrapped in the precious silence of naptime.

Unfortunately, she was greeted by a sight that made her heart stop. This couldn't be right, could it?

Something Was Off

Baby Ben sat in his crib, his innocent eyes gazing up at Lianna. She felt an unsettling pang in her chest.  Something wasn't right. As she approached, she noticed a damp spot on his blanket and a trace of moisture around his mouth.

Her motherly instincts kicked in, and she immediately checked his diaper, but it was dry and clean. Lianna's mind raced, searching for an explanation. 

Wanting To Uncover The Truth

The only possibility that came to mind was Maggie. She had noticed Maggie hovering around Ben more than usual lately, and her suspicions grew. Lianna's thoughts turned dark as she considered the implications. She needed to figure out the truth before it was too late.

Giving water to an infant could be dangerous, and she couldn't ignore the possibility that Maggie might be acting behind her back. 

How Could She Prove It?

But how could she prove it? Confronting Maggie without evidence seemed futile, especially considering the woman's unpredictable nature. Determined to protect her son, Lianna devised a plan. She decided to set up a hidden camera in Ben's room.

It would serve a dual purpose: providing her with extra peace of mind when she was away and allowing her to catch any suspicious activity.

Setting Up the Camera

That evening, after putting Ben to sleep, Lianna discreetly placed the camera on a high shelf, ensuring it had a clear view of the crib and the surrounding area.  She tested the device, making sure it was functioning correctly and that it could record both day and night. Once satisfied, she left the room, her heart heavy with anticipation and worry.

Over the next few days, Lianna monitored the footage carefully. She watched as Maggie entered the room multiple times, always when Lianna was occupied elsewhere. 

Blood Running Cold

Initially, Maggie's actions seemed harmless – adjusting Ben's blanket, softly singing lullabies, and gently rocking the crib. However, Lianna's vigilance paid off when, one afternoon, she saw something that made her blood run cold. In the video, Maggie could be seen entering the room with a small cup in hand. Lianna knew that she could catch her in the act now. The camera feed was live. She sprinted down the hallway and into the room.

There, in the nursery, was Maggie, leaning over the crib with a bottle in hand, poised to feed her newborn—a bottle filled with clear liquid. Panic gripping her chest, Lianna rushed forward, snatching the bottle away. "What are you doing?" she gasped, fearing the worst.

Caught Red Handed

"It's just a little water. It's hot today; the baby seemed thirsty," Maggie said, bewildered by Lianna's reaction. "We don't give newborns water," Lianna said, her voice trembling with a mixture of fear and anger. "It can be dangerous. We've talked about this."

The argument that ensued was volcanic, with years of unspoken tensions boiling over. Daniel came rushing in, trying to mediate but finding himself torn between his wife and mother. The confrontation left deep scars. 

Aftermath

Maggie, feeling rebuked and unwanted, retreated into a sullen silence before declaring that she would stay at a friend's house. In the aftermath, the house felt eerily quiet. Daniel apologized profusely to Lianna, caught between his roles as a son and a husband.

Lianna, though shaken, tried to focus on the well-being of their baby, and her resolve to protect her child was stronger than ever.

Changing Everything

However, the incident had a profound effect on the family dynamics. Maggie had inadvertently changed everything. Lianna and Daniel were forced to set firmer boundaries with Maggie, emphasizing the need for respect and adherence to their parenting choices.

It was a difficult period, one filled with awkward conversations and a delicate negotiation of family relationships.

Determination

Despite the turbulence, Lianna's experience reinforced her determination to trust her instincts as a mother. She learned that while guidance and advice could be valuable, it was ultimately her responsibility, alongside Daniel, to make the best decisions for their child.

Through the trial of conflict, their family found a new equilibrium, one based on mutual respect and the unifying love for the newest addition to their family.